As the Editor In Chief at T Ching, I’ve been feeling like I want to post something special for this holiday. My niece sent me this email written by 90 year old Regina Brett that I must say is quite appropriate. You might be familiar with some of the sentiments, but it’s well worth repeating. Looks like Ms Brett stopped counting after 41. Here’s the wisdom she’s wanting to impart:
To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 41 lessons life taught me. It is the most-requested column I’ve ever written. My odometer rolled over to 90 in August, so here is the column once more:
1. Life isn’t fair, but it’s still good.
2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.
3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.
4. Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch.
5. Pay off your credit cards every month.
6. You don’t have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
7. Cry with someone. It’s more healing than crying alone.
8. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.
9. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.
10. Make peace with your past so it won’t screw up the present.
11. Don’t compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
12. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn’t be in it.
13. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.
14. Get rid of anything that isn’t useful, beautiful or joyful.
15. Whatever doesn’t kill you really does make you stronger.
16. It’s never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.
17. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don’t take no for an answer.
18. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don’t save it for a special occasion.
Today is special.
19. Over prepare, then go with the flow.
20. Be eccentric now. Don’t wait for old age to wear purple.
21. The most important sex organ is the brain.
22. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.
23. Frame every so-called disaster with these words ”In five years, will this matter?”.
24. Always choose life.
25. Forgive everyone everything.
26. What other people think of you is none of your business.
27. Time heals almost everything. Give time, time.
28. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
29. Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
30. Believe in miracles.
31. Don’t audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.
32. Growing old beats the alternative — dying young.
33. Your children get only one childhood.
34. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.
35. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.
36. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else’s, we’d grab ours back.
37. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
38. The best is yet to come.
39. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
41. Life isn’t tied with a bow, but it’s still a gift (and one final one that she includes, she’s 90 after all…….)
Friends are the family that we choose for ourselves.
As we all know, Thanksgiving is a time for giving thanks. Despite the harsh economic times, I feel blessed to have a warm and loving family that supports me. I feel especially thankful for the wonderful team here at T Ching; Our tireless managing editor who pretty much runs the show, Erika Cilengir, our talented photo editor whose chosen images bring life to T Ching, Zach Hodgson and our newly acquired student editor, Alexandra Hoover who we’re counting on to turn her generation onto the wonders of tea. I’d also like to thank all of our creative and talented guest contributors for their stimulating posts and sharing their thoughts and feelings with us as we grow into a more established tea community. Happy Thanksgiving to all of our faithful readers in the U.S. and those hailing from 27 countries around the world. We are truly a global community. Let there be peace and harmony among the citizens of the world.
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